Ask Incrediboy to identify a country’s flag from a field of flags. Any country. I dare you. I warn you, however, that you’d better be certain, because he knows them all. After a busy day of school and daycare and ABA therapy, he’d rushed over to the toy drawer that held his art supplies and started pulling out coloured cardboard, because he needed (not wanted) to make some flags.
The flags you see in the photo are Japan, North Korea and Brazil. When Incrediboy was telling me what shapes and colours we needed to make the flag for North Korea, I tried correcting him, but he was insistent. I finally resorted to Google to resolve the dispute, and had to admit that my six year old son was right, and I was wrong (I had been picturing the flag for South Korea in my mind.) How many six year olds can draw flags from memory? How many adults can do so?
Flags, countries and nationalities are Incrediboy’s current “hobby”. It’s been fun with World Cup going on, as flags are being sold on nearly every street corner and cars are adorned with the occupants’ country of choice. A long car trip was much easier with Incrediboy gazing out at the passing cars, calling out the flags on the cars as they whizzed by.
I wondered, at first, if this was just another form of perseveration, the mind’s inability to move from one task to the next, which is often a challenge for those on the spectrum, or those with other neurological disorders. Maybe this “hyperfocus” on countries is just a passing fancy, and soon another youtube video will trigger a new fascination. It’s perhaps too soon to tell, but I am enjoying it for now.
It’s a nice break from all things Hot Wheels, Avengers or Spiderman, because this is a sign of him looking outward at the world. Recognizing the symbols of a flag, and connecting it to a country and its people, and (just recently) it’s language. Flags are a concrete concept, but countries and nationalities, when you are one small person of six years of age, is a pretty big abstraction. The world is a big place, and that can be frightening, but if you can get to know it better and know your place in it, then maybe you can find your way through.
Especially if you’ve already figured out the map function on your mom’s phone 🙂